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Help if you're being abused

England & WalesReviewed by Civil Help editorial team: 26 October 2026Next review: 26 April 2027
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If you are in immediate danger, call 999

Ask for the police. If you cannot speak and are calling from a mobile, listen to the operator, cough or tap the phone if you can, and press 55 when prompted — this is the Silent Solution, and your call will be put through to the police. Pressing 55 only works on mobiles and does not tell the police where you are.

From a landline, if the operator can only hear background noise and cannot tell whether an emergency service is needed, you will be connected to a police call handler. If you are deaf or cannot use a phone, you can register in advance with emergencySMS — see how to register on GOV.UK.

Anyone can experience abuse — from a partner or ex-partner, a family member, or someone else. Most victims of domestic abuse are women: the Office for National Statistics estimates that 2.2 million females and 1.5 million males aged 16 and over in England and Wales experienced domestic abuse in the year ending March 2025 (ONS, November 2025).

This page brings together Civil Help's guides for getting protected, leaving safely, dealing with online and image abuse, going to the police and court, and situations where your visa depends on your partner. Each guide explains the law in more detail. You do not need to read them in order.

Getting protected now

Leaving safely

Online and image abuse

Going to the police and court

If your immigration status depends on your partner

If your leave to remain is based on your relationship, get advice urgently from an OISC-regulated immigration adviser before you make any application.

Older or disabled adults

Where this applies

The guides on this page explain the law in England and Wales. The homelessness, council housing and adult safeguarding guides describe the rules in England only. If you live in Scotland or Northern Ireland, the law is different.

Disclaimer

This information is for general guidance only and does not constitute legal, financial, or professional advice. Always check official sources and seek qualified help where needed.