Domestic Abuse Emergency Leaving Checklist
Leaving is the most dangerous time. Plan carefully and quickly. This checklist covers what to take, who to call, and how to stay safe in the first 72 hours.
Before you leave — plan in advance
What to take if you can
On the day you leave
First 72 hours after leaving
Within 30 days
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