How to Choose a Care Home
Choosing a care home is one of the most significant decisions a family will make. The right home can provide excellent quality of life; the wrong one can cause harm. This guide walks through the key steps in making an informed choice, from checking CQC ratings to visiting homes and negotiating fees.
Key points
- Always check the CQC rating before visiting — aim for 'Good' or 'Outstanding'.
- Visit more than once, at different times of day, and ask to speak to residents and families.
- Ensure the home can meet the specific needs of the person — medical, dietary, cultural, and social.
- Understand the full fee structure before signing a contract, including what triggers a fee increase.
Starting the Search
Before searching for specific care homes, establish the key requirements:
- Type of care needed — Residential care (personal care, no nursing) or nursing care (registered nurses on site). If the person has dementia, specific dementia-registered provision may be needed;
- Location — Proximity to family and existing community connections matters for the person's wellbeing. Being near family who can visit regularly is associated with better care outcomes;
- Funding situation — Is the placement council-funded, NHS-funded (CHC), or self-funded? This determines the available options and who is commissioning the placement;
- Specific needs — Particular medical conditions (Parkinson's, MS, acquired brain injury), cultural or religious needs, dietary requirements, language needs.
Use the CQC's care home search tool at cqc.org.uk to find registered homes in the required area and check their ratings. Focus initial research on homes rated Good or Outstanding. Read the full inspection report, not just the headline rating — it often contains important detail about specific strengths and weaknesses.
Visiting Care Homes
A visit is essential before making any decision. Prepare for the visit by:
- Preparing a list of questions (see the related guide on 20 questions to ask a care home);
- Visiting at a mealtime if possible — the quality and presentation of meals and the atmosphere at mealtimes is revealing;
- Asking to speak with current residents and their families without staff present if possible;
- Looking at communal areas, the garden (if any), and (if possible with consent) the rooms available;
- Observing how staff interact with residents — are they respectful, patient, and engaged?
Pay attention to smells, sounds, and atmosphere. A well-run home will smell clean, not of urine. Residents should appear engaged and cared-for, not left alone for long periods. Staff should know residents by name and greet you warmly. Trust your instincts alongside the objective checks.
Financial and Contractual Considerations
Before committing to a placement, review the financial and contractual terms carefully:
- Full fee breakdown — What is included in the weekly fee and what is charged as an extra? Common extras include incontinence products, hairdressing, some activities, physiotherapy, and transport;
- Fee increase policy — How much notice is given of fee increases? How are increases calculated (e.g., linked to CPI, or at the home's discretion)? Is there a cap?
- Notice period — How much notice must you give to leave? Typically 28 days for the resident, but check what notice the home must give to ask you to leave;
- Bed-holding fees — What is charged if the resident is in hospital temporarily and the bed must be held?
- Third-party top-up arrangements — If council-funded, is a top-up required? Is it clearly set out in a written agreement?
Ask for the care home contract in advance to review. If any terms seem unusual or onerous, seek advice before signing. Age UK publishes guidance on care home contracts.
Frequently asked questions
Should I visit a care home more than once?
Can I move my relative to a different home if I am not happy?
What is a specialist dementia care home?
What to do next
- 1Search for care homes on the CQC website
Find and compare registered care homes with CQC ratings.
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Official bodies and resources
Care Quality Commission
RegulatorThe independent regulator of health and adult social care in England, inspecting and rating care services.
Age UK
CharityThe country's leading charity dedicated to helping everyone make the most of later life, providing advice, support, and companionship.
Local Government and Social Care Ombudsman
OmbudsmanInvestigates complaints about councils, social care providers, and some other public bodies in England.
Citizens Advice
CharityProvides free, confidential, and independent advice on a wide range of issues including benefits, housing, debt, and employment.
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