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How to Choose a Care Home

CareLast reviewed: 1 April 20257 min

Choosing a care home is one of the most significant decisions a family will make. The right home can provide excellent quality of life; the wrong one can cause harm. This guide walks through the key steps in making an informed choice, from checking CQC ratings to visiting homes and negotiating fees.

Key points

  • Always check the CQC rating before visiting — aim for 'Good' or 'Outstanding'.
  • Visit more than once, at different times of day, and ask to speak to residents and families.
  • Ensure the home can meet the specific needs of the person — medical, dietary, cultural, and social.
  • Understand the full fee structure before signing a contract, including what triggers a fee increase.

Visiting Care Homes

A visit is essential before making any decision. Prepare for the visit by:

  • Preparing a list of questions (see the related guide on 20 questions to ask a care home);
  • Visiting at a mealtime if possible — the quality and presentation of meals and the atmosphere at mealtimes is revealing;
  • Asking to speak with current residents and their families without staff present if possible;
  • Looking at communal areas, the garden (if any), and (if possible with consent) the rooms available;
  • Observing how staff interact with residents — are they respectful, patient, and engaged?

Pay attention to smells, sounds, and atmosphere. A well-run home will smell clean, not of urine. Residents should appear engaged and cared-for, not left alone for long periods. Staff should know residents by name and greet you warmly. Trust your instincts alongside the objective checks.

Financial and Contractual Considerations

Before committing to a placement, review the financial and contractual terms carefully:

  • Full fee breakdown — What is included in the weekly fee and what is charged as an extra? Common extras include incontinence products, hairdressing, some activities, physiotherapy, and transport;
  • Fee increase policy — How much notice is given of fee increases? How are increases calculated (e.g., linked to CPI, or at the home's discretion)? Is there a cap?
  • Notice period — How much notice must you give to leave? Typically 28 days for the resident, but check what notice the home must give to ask you to leave;
  • Bed-holding fees — What is charged if the resident is in hospital temporarily and the bed must be held?
  • Third-party top-up arrangements — If council-funded, is a top-up required? Is it clearly set out in a written agreement?

Ask for the care home contract in advance to review. If any terms seem unusual or onerous, seek advice before signing. Age UK publishes guidance on care home contracts.

Frequently asked questions

Should I visit a care home more than once?
Yes — visit at least twice and at different times of day. An unannounced visit (arriving without an appointment) is also valuable if the home permits it. The atmosphere and care quality can vary significantly at different times. If possible, visit once during the week and once at the weekend or in the evening.
Can I move my relative to a different home if I am not happy?
Yes. The right to change care providers applies in care homes. See the separate guide on changing care provider for details. For council-funded placements, the council must be involved in arranging any move.
What is a specialist dementia care home?
A care home registered to provide dementia care will have staff with specialist dementia training, a physical environment designed for people with dementia (clear signage, safe walking spaces, sensory stimulation), and activities and routines that are appropriate for dementia. Not all care homes are suitable for people with dementia — check the CQC registration category and ask specifically about dementia provision.

What to do next

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    Search for care homes on the CQC website

    Find and compare registered care homes with CQC ratings.

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Official bodies and resources

Care Quality Commission

Regulator

The independent regulator of health and adult social care in England, inspecting and rating care services.

Age UK

Charity

The country's leading charity dedicated to helping everyone make the most of later life, providing advice, support, and companionship.

Local Government and Social Care Ombudsman

Ombudsman

Investigates complaints about councils, social care providers, and some other public bodies in England.

Citizens Advice

Charity

Provides free, confidential, and independent advice on a wide range of issues including benefits, housing, debt, and employment.

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Disclaimer

This information is for general guidance only and does not constitute legal advice. You should seek qualified legal help if your situation requires it.