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Consent Orders After Divorce

FamilyLast reviewed: 1 April 20256 min

If you have reached a financial agreement with your former spouse after divorce, you should convert that agreement into a court-approved consent order. Without a court order, your financial claims remain open indefinitely — a former spouse could make a claim against you years or even decades later. A consent order provides legal finality.

Important

This is general guidance only and does not constitute legal advice. Family law is highly fact-specific. Always consult a qualified family law solicitor for advice about your individual circumstances. Legal aid may be available for some family law matters, particularly where domestic abuse is involved.

Key points

  • An informal financial agreement between divorcing spouses is not legally binding — only a court order provides finality.
  • You can apply for a consent order without a court hearing if both parties agree — the court fee is £53 for a consent application.
  • Both parties must complete Form D81 (Statement of Information for a Consent Order) alongside the draft order.
  • The court will only approve a consent order if it is fair — the judge reviews it even without a hearing.
  • A clean break consent order dismisses all future financial claims — capital, income, and pension — between the parties.
  • You must have a conditional order (formerly decree nisi) in place before the court will approve a financial consent order.

Form D81 and What a Consent Order Should Contain

Form D81 (Statement of Information for a Consent Order) is a key document. It is completed separately by each party and provides the court with a snapshot of each person's financial position: their gross and net income, capital assets, outstanding mortgage, and net assets after any proposed settlement. It also includes details about the divorce and any children.

The judge uses Form D81 to assess whether the consent order is fair. If the order looks grossly imbalanced (for example, one party takes everything and the other is left with very little and has significant needs), the judge may decline to approve it and list the matter for a short hearing to explore the terms.

A well-drafted consent order should address all of the following that are relevant:

  • Capital orders: Who keeps which property or assets, and in what proportions if sold. Any charge on the family home (such as a Mesher order).
  • Pension sharing: Whether any pension sharing order is being made, in favour of which party, and in what percentage.
  • Maintenance orders: Whether spousal maintenance is being paid, to whom, the amount, the term, and the basis for variation or termination. A term order (time-limited maintenance) is generally preferred to a joint lives order in modern family law.
  • Clean break: A clause dismissing all remaining capital, pension, and maintenance claims between the parties — this is the clean break provision. Without it, claims remain technically open.

After Approval: Enforcement and Variation

Once the court seals the consent order, it becomes binding on both parties. Its terms can be enforced in the same way as other court orders. If a party fails to comply — for example, by not transferring a property or not paying a lump sum by the required date — the other party can return to court to enforce it, using powers including charging orders, third-party debt orders, or committal proceedings for contempt of court in serious cases.

Maintenance orders within the consent order can be varied if there is a material change in circumstances (such as redundancy, serious illness, or retirement). Capital orders — including property transfers and lump sums — are generally final and cannot be varied once made. Pension sharing orders are also final once implemented.

A consent order can be set aside in very limited circumstances: where a party failed to make full and frank financial disclosure at the time (leading to a fundamentally different picture of the finances); where a Barder event occurs (a supervening event of a fundamental and unforeseen nature that undermines the basis of the order); or where the order was obtained by fraud or duress. Setting aside is uncommon and difficult to achieve — it requires a fresh application to the court.

Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to get a consent order approved?
If both parties are agreed and the paperwork is correctly completed, a consent order can be approved by a judge on the papers (without a hearing) typically within 4 to 12 weeks of submission, depending on court workloads. More complex orders — particularly those involving children trust arrangements or unusual pension provisions — may take longer or require a short hearing.
Can I get a consent order without a solicitor?
Technically yes, but it is strongly recommended to use a solicitor. The consent order must be in the correct legal form, and errors or ambiguities can cause significant problems in enforcement or if disputes arise later. Many solicitors offer a fixed-fee consent order drafting service. If you have already agreed terms through mediation, the mediator's memorandum of understanding can form the basis for the solicitor's draft.
What is the difference between a consent order and a separation agreement?
A separation agreement is a private contract between two people — it is not approved by the court and is not directly enforceable as a court order. Courts can take a separation agreement into account when deciding financial remedy proceedings, but they are not bound by it. A consent order is a court order — it is directly enforceable and provides legal finality. For permanent financial resolution, a consent order is always preferable to a separation agreement.
My ex has agreed verbally but now refuses to sign — what can I do?
If the parties cannot agree on the terms of a consent order, you may need to issue formal financial remedy proceedings (not a consent application) and go through the FDA/FDR/Final Hearing process. Alternatively, you could try mediation to break the deadlock. If your ex had agreed in writing (through solicitors' correspondence) and then withdrew, your solicitor may be able to argue that the agreement should be enforced as a contract or a "Rose order" — though this is complex and specialist advice is essential.

What to do next

  1. 1
    Download Form D81 — Statement of Information

    Complete Form D81 to accompany your consent order application.

  2. 2
    GOV.UK guidance on consent orders

    Overview of applying for financial orders after divorce.

  3. 3
    Find a family mediator

    If agreement is proving difficult, a mediator can help.

  4. 4
    Financial Settlement on Divorce

    Understand how the court divides assets before agreeing terms.

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This information is for general guidance only and does not constitute legal advice. You should seek qualified legal help if your situation requires it.